4 Best Ways to Attract Your Partner’s Attention

Be it a new phone or bungee jumping for the first time, the excitement of everything you do is at its peak in the beginning. After a while, it's natural for the rush and enthusiasm to wear off and it's mostly understandable and acceptable too: but, definitely not when it comes to a romantic relationship. There's nothing worse than feeling unloved by someone you love the most. Indifference to your significant other can be extremely hurtful. In the beginning, you were used to seeing messages like, “How was your day?”, “What are you doing right now?”, “Good Morning”, and “Good Night” but now those messages have not only gradually disappeared but your daily interaction with your special someone has also significantly reduced.

Fortunately, more often than not the reason behind this lost touch is not something malicious but rather the increasingly busy schedules in today's hectic lifestyle. Read on to learn how you can let your partner know that you miss their presence in your life and how you can get them to notice you more.

Arrange for something for them that they really like to do

With a repetitive and monotonous lifestyle, people tend to get bored and boring too. People are at their best when they're doing something they love. A tedious lifestyle also negatively impacts mental health and may lead to your partner getting more agitated, depressed, and sad. An activity that they are passionate about can revitalize and refresh them. It can be an artistic activity like painting, singing, playing musical instruments, dancing, or cooking, or even an indoor or outdoor game.

Make a Love Note in a Special Way:

Communication is the key they say and for a good reason. Sometimes all you need to do to win back your loved one's attention is to let them know that you are missing them. A handwritten note is the most effective way to awaken your partner to the realization that their absence in your life has been eating into you. A message written with pen and paper will show the intensity of the real efforts and look more genuine and heartfelt. Hide the message in a place where you know they'll easily find and see the reaction.

Surprise Them with Flowers and Gifts

Little delightful surprises are the secret to a healthy relationship. This is because they bring positive feelings of happiness, gratitude, and appreciation. And secondly, it is a great way to let your loved one know how much you value the relationship with them. The surprises can be, but don't always have to be very lavish or expensive. Flowers are great, pocket-friendly ideas “just because” they can be gifted to your partner at any time or on any day and bring a smile to their face. You can add little gifts like cakes or chocolates to make these flowers even more appealing. 

Take Your Partner to Their Favorite Place

Everyone deserves a day off from their exigent schedule. A day where they can relax, enjoy and do things that they like. It may be a movie night or dinner date that your partner prefers. Or you can arrange a movie night coupled with a dinner date. The date can be a nice opportunity for both of you to catch up and spend some quality time together. It is a good idea to plan this short or long trip as a wedding anniversary gift also. This will always help to express your gratitude for your partner.